Are you suddenly observing the changed behaviour of your partner and wondering why is it happening? Sometimes, changed behaviour might be due to work pressure or some kind of stress but unfortunately, another reason could be that your partner is looking out for someone else. In any case, you need to talk to your partner and know the exact reason. There are chances that he/she is in bad times and needs you even more but there is a possibility too that he/she is drifting away from you.
If you are suspicious that your partner is cheating on you then you should look out for the following signs. These signs are the general behaviour observed when a partner is cheating in any relationship. Still, there can be chances that your partner has all these signs but is not cheating on you. In the end, it’s all about talking and having a real conversation.
1. Suddenly starts hiding the password of phone and pc
If your partner was open with you about his personal stuff like phone, pc, social media account and suddenly started hiding everything from you then it might be a sign that he/she is cheating on you. Your partner knows that his/her affair partner can text or call any time. It will be suspicious of you if you see that. Keeping his/her phone away is the best option for your partner if he/she is cheating on you.
2. Avoiding eye contact with you
If your partner has suddenly started avoiding eye contact with you this is a sign that he is ashamed of something or hiding something from you. Avoiding eye contact suggests dishonesty and guilt. Your partner has done something wrong which he/she is not able to share with you. In such a case, you should keep a check on the activities of your partner.
3. Sudden Change in routine
Is your partner suddenly having work trips or a late-night working routine in the office which was not the case before? It might be a possibility that these are just excuses to spend extra time with the person he/she is having affairs with. These changes might be genuine sometimes but keeping a check when you are in doubt is very important to save your relationship from degrading.
4. Always Unreachable
If you feel that your partner is avoiding you while he/she is on work, not answering your calls many times, and making excuses later then he/she might be with his/her affair partner and is hesitant to pick up your call in front of that person. This changed behaviour can be disturbing for you and you might feel that your relationship is degrading. This is the time you need to talk with your partner and get answers to your questions.
5. Suddenly focusing on appearance
If a person who doesn’t used give a damn about their appearances suddenly starts paying special attention to it then there are definitely some changes happening in their life. It might be some kind of self-motivation or desire to look better but in some cases, it can also be an affair with someone else. If you see this sign mixed with other signs then you should look out for your partner.
It is normal when you are in a relationship and feel insecure about your partner. Everyone wants their partner to be loyal in the relationship. Your insecurity might be wrong or right. It is important for you to observe your partner before doubting him/her. If you are not able to make the right observations and decisions you can also hire a private detective agency for the same. They are experts in the field of investigation and will provide you accurate insights with real-time prooves. In the end, it is important to be sure about your insecurity before pointing fingers at your partner. Doubting your partner unnecessarily can also disturb your relationship as it may hurt the self-respect of your partner.